One of These Things is Not Like the Other

Before I get into my newest blog post, I have some housekeeping matters that must be taken care of first. 

Let me begin by saying that I truly appreciate the large number of followers that have recently discovered my page on Facebook.

At the urging of my friends, I started writing The Single Mom Saga because my dating life had become something of a dramedy. My friends said that I should write a book, but I felt like I wasn't capable of eating the elephant in one bite, so I decided on writing a blog. 

I have been writing the Single Mom Saga since 2007 and have been posting to Facebook since June 30, 2009 and no matter HOW much I begged my friends and family to share my blog, the numbers just weren't growing.

In 2014, I stopped writing and pulled my posts because I had gotten involved with an insecure and judgemental person not capable of accepting the fact that I had a life before them. 

But the STRANGEST thing happened! I slowly started getting Facebook notifications that I had new followers. 

Weird, I thought... 

Then the numbers started doubling and I posted my conrfusion to my page. 

A "follower" explained to me the situation and it all made sense. 

I'd just like to say THANK YOU for the follows, but I am not the woman you are looking for. 

The only thing she and I have in common - that I know of - is that we are both single women with two sons using the same blog name. 

I am a Black woman from the Northeast, currently living in one of THE REDDEST states in the south.

My sons are grown.  Hers are young. She has blonde hair.  Mine is purchased from the Koreans. 

I've seen the other blogger's posts and I can tell you, she's a woman, but she's not Black. 

We are two different people! 

Sooooo... if you want to keep following this page, welcome!
If not, no hard feelings.